I'm Zilla. I've studied thousands of venues, vendors, and traditions. I'll share tried and true recommendations and dig into the details so you can actually enjoy being engaged.
this you? breathe.
The date(s), rough budget, the three words for the vibe. Booked the venue already or starting from zero, both are fine. I meet you where you are.
Venue research, vendor shortlists, budget math, the hidden-fee hunt. I bring you the 4 that actually fit, not 200 you have to sort through.
I have opinions and I'll share them, honestly. But every decision is yours. I just make sure you've got the truth before you sign anything.
The Knot and Zola answer to whoever pays them. I don't take a cent from vendors, so every rec is earned.
The Sunday discount they don't advertise. The 22% service charge buried on page 9. The florist worth the splurge.
No planner, no problem. I'm the most organized friend you've got.
No forms, no dashboards to learn, no 14-step onboarding. You tell me what's going on, I handle the heavy lifting and bring back something real.
Booked, mid-chaos, or staring at a blank Pinterest board, I pick up exactly where you are.
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